We Said “I Do” From Two Locations — Legally

We Said “I Do” From Two Locations — Legally

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Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from separate countries.

When you’re in a cross-border relationship, especially with military deployment, everything gets more complicated. Time zones, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel overwhelming.

We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just kept falling through.

Then we found out we could get married online.

At first, we thought it was some kind of loophole. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah allow fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re recognized across the U.S..

We decided to go for it.

Here’s how it worked for us:

• We uploaded our IDs and filled out a quick form.
• We reserved our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
• We invited our closest friends and family to join via Zoom.
• And when the day came, we connected to the ceremony, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.

I said “I do” from my apartment. My spouse-to-be said it from their military base.

It was emotional. It was easy. And it was ours.

The officiant guided us through everything. The ceremony was short but meaningful. And we received our legal marriage certificate the same day — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no website headaches.

Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle joint bank accounts, and every agency has accepted it — no issues at all.

If you’re separated by borders, don’t wait. Online marriage is legal, and it’s a meaningful way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.

We’re proof that weddings don’t need venues — and that what matters most is the commitment.

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